Thursday, March 29, 2012
Sex and the City Unrated
Sex and the City is like a long dragged out porno where you don't get to see anything good. In almost every episode one or more person has sex. My friend told me that she doesn't recall any of them having sex with a black guy. This goes hand and hand with the lesson about interracial porn being the white MALES fantasy and not the w omens. The girls in Sex and the City do not usually want to do the same things you see in porn. Porn is defiantly based around the ideas and fantasy of men. If porn was like Sex and the City there would be no women being treated poorly or being told to do crazy things that are unrealistic or savage. Sex would be sex and that's all there would be. There is some poor that is like this and some people are into it. But the top sellers are the ones that most people do not experience in real life. They should make a Sex and the City from the view of a group of guys. Yes there will be lots of sex but honestly most of the sex would be just the same as the sex that girls in the current show are having. Not many guys ever get to actually participate in these crazy sex scenario. Porn is used to help you visualize a fantasy you might have that cannot be fulfilled.
Thursday, March 8, 2012
Check Yes or No.
Most men would probably want to just ask their bride to be in the most simple and stress free way to marry them. But society has changed this idea and men are expected to do some kind of romantic proposal. A man is expected to spend massive quantities of money on a ring because the media said so. http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice_60/92_dating_tips.html
Now that the women are on board with this big ring hype, the man is forced to go along with it to please his women. If he does not agree with these ideas he may be susceptible to a break up or a "No" when the question is popped.
Now that media has control over the ring, they add in ideas about the wedding. A wedding needs to be big with many people that you hardly know, and top of the line cake, dress, and reception. I personally would like to have no input on the wedding planning. My wife can decide everything, because no one can complain about a surprise party. A surprise is always good no matter what others have chosen for you. If you are not the one who made the decisions, you cant second guess choices or stress if others agree with those decisions. Media has changed the wedding to a point of embarrassment. A wedding is good no matter what, as long as you are in good company, love is in the air, and a open bar! With a open bar people loosen up an have a good time regardless of other decisions made by the bride and groom.
Now that the women are on board with this big ring hype, the man is forced to go along with it to please his women. If he does not agree with these ideas he may be susceptible to a break up or a "No" when the question is popped.
Now that media has control over the ring, they add in ideas about the wedding. A wedding needs to be big with many people that you hardly know, and top of the line cake, dress, and reception. I personally would like to have no input on the wedding planning. My wife can decide everything, because no one can complain about a surprise party. A surprise is always good no matter what others have chosen for you. If you are not the one who made the decisions, you cant second guess choices or stress if others agree with those decisions. Media has changed the wedding to a point of embarrassment. A wedding is good no matter what, as long as you are in good company, love is in the air, and a open bar! With a open bar people loosen up an have a good time regardless of other decisions made by the bride and groom.
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Chores of the House
People think that women are suppose to be inside cooking and cleaning. I think that this is not a unreasonable thought. Women usually are not asked to do the outside physical work around the house. I suppose some women would agree to go outside an mow the lawn while the man stays in and washes the dishes, but not most. Yes, there is more frequent work inside the house and women do work hard to keep a well kept house. I feel that there is a reason that women are looked at as they are. Women don't want too be looked at in this way, but most women would rather be inside doing work then outside doing physical labor on occasion. I'm sure there are women who would take the trade. Also, I'm sure that not too many husbands ask there wives to go outside and fix the roof while he vacuums the living room. This may be sexually biased but it is in the the best interest for both parties. Generally women will willingly accept the inside work as well as the men will accept the physical labor. My statement is pertaining to present day family where both parties work during the day and come home to do chores. Even thought women cooking and cleaning is looked as a stereo type and men are looked as, as making the women do as they say. I feel that the trade off is some what reasonable when distributing the chores among the house hold. Finally, when the family have children and they are of age to start doing some of the chores, mainly it is the son who will learn to do the physical chores such as mowing the lawn or stacking wood. The daughter will be asked to do inside house hold chores like that of the mother. This is how a house hold works in many house holds in today's age. This shown in movies and TV shows that revolve around a family or a house hold. This is shown every where and it is stereotypical but it seems to work for many family. If it is shown in reverse roles then it is usually portrayed as odd or negative and does not work well in the family setting.
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